To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning is a contemporary, affordable wedding planning service, bringing more than a decade of wedding coordination experience and creative passion to couples seeking a stylish, signature event.

Inspired by their deep love of "all things wedding", this talented and dedicated team has the experience, composure, and creativity to ensure that your unique wedding vision is beautifully executed, and every element unfolds seamlessly through every phase of your wedding.

Relax, and truly be present in your celebration knowing we're here, and completely devoted to taking care of every detail, and creating an unforgettable experience for you and your guests!

We know from experience that hiring a skilled, dedicated professional wedding planner can mean the difference between your wedding day exceeding all of your dreams, or wishing that certain details had turned out differently.

Let us use our expertise to build the wedding day of your dreams, while elevating every extraordinary detail so it tells YOUR unique love story!

Packages & Pricing

It's no secret that keeping wedding expenses within a their financial comfort zone ranks as the top priority of our 2024 & 2025 wedding couples.

We are so grateful to so many of our couples for taking the time to share their fears about staying within their wedding budget. We talked openly about the stress it can bring, and the impact that "budget woes" can have during what should be the happiest time of their life.

We pride ourselves on sharing creative solutions to keep costs down while still achieving that vision for the perfect day. From offering customized services and pricing to connecting couples with our affordable preferred vendors, we are dedicated to ensuring couples experience the wedding of their dreams without breaking the bank!

Meet Judi, Owner & Lead "Magic Maker"

Hi, I'm Judi Tener, Owner and Lead Planner, and I'm thrilled that you're here!

Couples often ask me "Why did you choose to become a wedding planner?" To which I answer, "Imagine using all of your experience, energy and passion to help build something that results in the happiest day of someone's life." It's pure joy!

My love for "everything wedding" began in my heart and imagination when I was a little girl. As life unfolded, my genuine love for creating unforgettable celebrations that elevate life's most meaningful moments was the "secret sauce" to my success when I set forth to create "To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning", and build an exceptional team of talented "Magic Makers."

It's not just my work that makes me one of the luckiest people you'll meet. My life is filled with the love and support of my kind, amazing, super-hero husband, my beautiful, brilliant, hilarious daughter (also my BFF), the best, most loving son-in-law on the planet, three precious grown step-children, two adorable fur babies eager to snuggle, and a community filled with the best friends and neighbors anyone could have.

Now that you know a bit about what inspires me, I'd love to connect with you and learn about how we can bring our "magic" to your wedding day!

About Us

Our Happy Couples

Read what our 2024 couples have to say about their unforgettable wedding experience!

To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning went above and beyond to make us feel so supported through the entire wedding planning process. Every phone chat with Judi made us feel so much more at ease and excited about our big day. We were totally in over our heads, and Judi walked us through every step of the way. THANK YOU JUDI!!!!!

Meghan G.

Meadow Vista, CA.

Judi and her team were exceptional in every way. Her attention to detail, creative vision, and ability to manage everything seamlessly took so much stress off our shoulders. The day went off without a hitch, and every element was executed perfectly, just as we had dreamed… and more!

Tatiana R.

Brentwood, Ca.

★★★★★

★★★★★

Hiring To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning will be the BEST decision you make for your wedding! Her enthusiasm and genuine love for weddings sets her apart and her knowledge is unmatched. Thank you again Judi for everything you did to make our day perfect and magical!

Andrew H

Seattle, WA.

★★★★★