At To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning, we are a passionate, experienced team of wedding design experts, bringing more than a decade of full scale wedding planning experience and creative passion to couples seeking a stylish, signature event.

With more than 15 years of experience crafting wedding dreams into reality, we possess the composure and creativity to ensure your unique wedding vision is beautifully executed, and every element unfolds seamlessly through every phase of your wedding planning journey.

You deserve to LOVE every minute of your engagement, to take a breath, and truly enjoying being present in your journey together.

We know from experience that having a knowledgeable, dedicated professional wedding planner in your corner, is the key to feeling confident, supported and cared for during your wedding planning journey, giving you the freedom to embrace the fun and relaxation you deserve during this magical time!

So, embrace the joy of finding your forever love! We'll be here to masterfully manage the details, and perfect every element, and curate an unforgettable wedding experience for you and your guests.

Let us use our expertise to build the wedding day of your dreams, while elevating every extraordinary detail so it tells YOUR unique love story!

Our Happy Couples

Read what our couples have to say about their unforgettable wedding experiences!

To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning went above and beyond to make us feel so supported through the entire wedding planning process. Every phone chat with Judi made us feel so much more at ease and excited about our big day. We were totally in over our heads, and Judi walked us through every step of the way. THANK YOU JUDI!!!!!

Meghan G.

Meadow Vista, CA.

Judi and her team were exceptional in every way. Her attention to detail, creative vision, and ability to manage everything seamlessly took so much stress off our shoulders. The day went off without a hitch, and every element was executed perfectly, just as we had dreamed… and more!

Tatiana R.

Brentwood, Ca.

★★★★★

Hiring To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning will be the BEST decision you will make for your wedding! Judi & her team's enthusiasm and genuine love for weddings sets them apart and her knowledge is unmatched. Thank you again Judi for everything you did to make our day perfect and magical!

Andrew H

Seattle, WA.

★★★★★

Hiring Judi and her incredible team was the best decision we made for our wedding!

Judi kept us grounded; her expert advice & management kept us within our wedding budget without compromising on our dream details. Judi and her team executed our wedding flawlessly. My partner and I were totally relaxed and able to fully immerse ourselves in the joy of the moment. We knew without a doubt that Judi and her team were by our side handling every single detail behind the scenes. Thank you, Judi, for giving us the perfect day!

★★★★★

★★★★★

Chanelle F.

Lincoln, Ca.

★★★★★

Let's Talk "Budget"

"Luxury & Love"

Our comprehensive, full-service premier planning package.

This elite tier is crafted for the couple desiring complete peace of mind, and the freedom to enjoy every moment of their engagement.

Leave the heavy lifting, financial planning stratagies, and design and logistics to us. This collection guarantees our highest level of high-touch service and design tracking.

Note: To assist with time-sensitive elements and streamline planning, a credit card will be held on file. Only after your consent, and your signature on all vendor contracts, will it be used to finalize vendor booking deposits, approved wedding related purchases, and wedding vendor payments. The card on file will not be used to pay for our services.

Investment Structure:

• Up to 80 Guests: $4,499

• 81 – 149 Guests: $4,999

• 150 – 199 Guests: $5,499

• 200 – 249 Guests: $5,999

• 250+ Guests: $6,499

What’s Included:

• Foundation: Includes ALL SERVICES featured in our Classically Curated collection, PLUS:

• Financial Management: Comprehensive wedding budgeting and custom financial tracking.

• Contract Guidance: Professional vendor contract reviews and recommendations for revisions

• Venue Scouting: Intensive venue research, site-visit scheduling, plus 2 complimentary venue visits within 75 miles of Auburn, Ca. Venues further than 75 miles from our Auburn location incure a mileage fee.

• Guest Experience: Complete research for hotel room blocks, other guest lodging options, and regional transportation logistics.

• Transit Management: Design and orchestration of a seamless wedding day guest shuttle schedule.

• Bar & Beverage: Deep-dive beverage and bar budget planning, along with guidance on curated bar options and custom pricing configurations.

"Uniquely Us"

Coordination at unstaffed venues (private properties, estates)

Feeling like you might need a little extra logistical help? This collection is tailored specifically for couples hosting weddings at private properties, family estates, or venues with no internal venue staff.

We are thrilled to bridge that gap, and expertly manage the “behind the scenes” complex coordination that so many moving parts demand, culminating in a seamless, inviting wedding experience for you and your guests.

Investment Structure:

• Up to 80 Guests: $2,999

• 81 – 149 Guests: $3,299

• Note: Larger guest counts for unstaffed properties are custom-quoted based on layout complexity and the need for additional design consultations, and staff

What’s Included:

• Foundation: Includes ALL SERVICES featured in our Classically Curated collection, PLUS:

• Property Logistics: Bringing decades of experience in designing detailed, complex coordination, with focus on the logistical challenges at private estate properties, like:

• City or County event permits (yes, even at private properties!)

• Luxury restroom load-in and exit, including required water supply and electrical needs. Weather contingencies

• Septic system impact (if not choosing to provide rented restrooms) Vendor lead-in zones

• Insect abatement Power sources guidance

• Guest parking strategies that comply with county and city parking laws

• Waste removal plan and noise ordinances

"Classically Curated"

Wedding Coordination at a fully staffed wedding venue.

You’ve accomplished so much, and poured your hearts and souls into creating the perfect celebration of your love. After all of your effort, you’d love to just relax, take a breath and enjoy being taken care of, knowing every detail will unfold just as you’ve imagined.

Perfect! That’s our specialty! We partner directly with your venue staff to ensure every detail unfolds seamlessly and with intention, allowing you to feel cared for, confident, and like a welcome guest at your own wedding!

Investment Structure:

• Up to 80 Guests: $2,499

• 81 – 149 Guests: $2,799

• 150 – 199 Guests: $3,199

• 200 – 249 Guests: $3,599

• 250+ Guests: $3,999

What’s Included:

• Initial Step: Free 1-hour introductory phone or virtual consultation.

• Timeline Prep: Creation of your comprehensive, customized wedding day master timeline.

• Rehearsal: 1-hour ceremony rehearsal coordination (date subject to availability).

• Touchpoints: Monthly check-in calls to review your timeline progression and remaining tasks.

• Communication: Dedicated, responsive communication channel throughout your entire planning window.

• On-Site Strategy: 1 complimentary venue visit to map out logistics within 60 miles of our office in Auburn, Ca. Venues further than 60 miles incur a mileage fee.

• Vendor Access: Immediate access to our list of expertly vetted Preferred Vendors.

• Wedding Day: Up to 11 full hours of elite on-site vendor management, decor placement and timeline execution on your wedding da

Meet Judi, Owner & Lead Planner

Hi, I'm Judi Tener, Owner and Lead Planner, I'm so thrilled you're here!

Couples often ask me "Why did you choose to become a wedding planner?" To which I answer, "Imagine using all of your experience, energy and passion to help build something that results in the happiest day of someone's life." It's pure joy!

My love for "everything wedding" began in my heart and imagination when I was a little girl. As life unfolded, my genuine love for creating unforgettable celebrations that elevate life's most meaningful moments was the "secret sauce" to my success when I set forth to create "To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning", and build an exceptional team of talented "Magic Makers."

It's not just my work that makes me one of the luckiest people you'll meet. My life is filled with the love and support of my kind, amazing, super-hero husband, my beautiful, brilliant, hilarious daughter (also my BFF), the best, most loving son-in-law on the planet, three precious grown step-children, two adorable fur babies eager to snuggle, and a community filled with the best friends and neighbors anyone could have.

Now that you know a bit about what inspires me, I'd love to connect with you and learn about how we can bring our "magic" to your wedding day!

About Us

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Designing unforgettable weddings that tell your unique love story.

Passionate and Experienced

Office Hours:

Tu-Fri: 8am-5pm

Sat & Sun: Reserved for events

Mon: CLOSED

Phone: (925) 408-7888

juditener@ifoundtheoneforme.com

Instagram: @tohavetoholdweddings

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